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Something We Can All Agree On

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Written and directed by Nell Hardy

From research conducted by
Dr Jenny Hardy
Jo Kind
Prof Lisa Oakley
Prof Linda Woodhead

Film-maker: Tallulah Self
Assisted by
Sapphira Gordon and Yonis Jama

Performed by
Iman Boujelouah
Nell Hardy
Richard Stirling

Wider Abuse in Religious Contexts research team:
Yehudis Fletcher
Dr Sarah Harvey
Justin Humphreys
Prof Gordon Lynch
Yasmin Rehman
Richard Scorer
Prof Johanna Stiebert

"Forgiveness is a strange thing, isn't it?
Forgiveness is a divine thing, and I'm not divine."

Some things, it seems, are just meant to be. At the same time as we were developing I, Lord - our show exploring spiritual abuse as experienced and perpetrated by people of many and no faiths - the Abuse in Religious Contexts project was starting to get into full swing. We didn't know about each other at first, but we quickly found out.

As a survivor of an experience that never seems to get spoken about, even though it's everywhere, finding others who have been through it too is such a profound experience. Finding that a well-funded national research project is underway led by professionals in law, safeguarding, advocacy and support for victim-survivors, and researchers with and without lived experience from a range of faith cultures, is another rung on the ladder.

Our shared interest and motivation in bringing to light the cultural, systemic and interpersonal features underpinning spiritual abuse across faith contexts (and outside of faith contexts), was not all we had in common. Like us, the researchers were keen to put victims and survivors in the driving seat and inform every stage of their process. And like us, they recognised the value of using the arts to make that accessible and trauma-conscious.

One of their research teams used a method called photo elicitation to interview survivors about their experiences of abuse. In this method, rather than simply being asked to answer a series of questions, interviewees are given the questions in advance and invited to share images that they associate with the themes in those questions. These can be photographs, collages, drawings, artworks, with literal or metaphorical relevance to the questions. The researchers then ask the survivors what those images mean to them. It is a way of avoiding the retraumatisation risk of asking survivors to go over the details of their abuse, and the frustration of trying to put together a linear narrative about it - as trauma can affect survivors' memories to the point where this can be almost impossible.

In our opinion, it also filters out the stuff that the researchers don't really need to know, and gives survivors permission to focus on what is really important to them. What their lives are like now. What they want them to be in the future. What they want for others like them, and for others at risk of experiencing what they experienced. People often reflect on how RAT shows pay very little attention to the details of survivors' original traumas, and far more on how survivors navigate the world around them. So this collaboration was a natural meeting of minds.

Each of these five films responds to a different question put to victims and survivors by researchers. The text is taken directly from the answers they received. As some of the interviews were through this lens of photo elicitation, the product is more like a series of poems than naturalistic scenes - which we feel perfectly captures the insidious but often intangible nature of spiritual abuse.

1. Fire in the Dark

Responding to the question:

What has been the impact of experiencing abuse in a religious context?

2. Trees in the Sea

Responding to the question:

What was it like when you told somebody?

3. Hole in the Window

Responding to the question:

What has it done to your faith and hope?

4. Neurons in the Path

Responding to the question:

What has helped you to survive?

5. Kite in the Snow

Responding to the question:

What do you want others to know?

Something We Can All Agree On
is a co-production between
Response Ability Theatre and Inside Job Productions.

The Abuse in Religious Contexts project was made possible by funding from the Arts and Humanities Research Council.

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